Safe words are the emergency brakes of kink and BDSM. They allow us to explore intense play, emotional vulnerability, and power exchange safely. But what happens after one of you actually uses a safe word?

Many guides talk about what safe words are and when to use them. Fewer talk about the aftercare, communication, and reflection that follow. So let’s break it down.

Strap-on sex isn’t just for one kind of body or one kind of relationship. It’s a powerful, playful, and deeply satisfying way to explore pleasure, connection, and power dynamics. Whether you’re completely new or looking to refine your skills, strap-on play has something to offer everyone.

Here are some inclusive, sex-positive tips to help you enjoy the ride (literally).

We often associate Dominants with strength, control, and unshakable confidence. But even the most self-assured Dom(me)s are human – and that means they, too, can become emotionally overwhelmed.

For submissives, this can be confusing or even destabilizing. After all, the person you rely on to guide and hold space for you is suddenly in need of care themselves. To help you navigate those vulnerable moments, we created this thoughtful, sub-centred guide.

In the world of BDSM, the term “domspace” refers to a mental and emotional state experienced by the dominant partner in a power-exchange relationship. It’s a space where they feel in control, confident, and deeply connected to their role as a dominant. But what does this mean in practice, and why is it an important part of BDSM dynamics? Let’s break it down.

In a world obsessed with productivity, it’s easy to forget that our sensuality is not a luxury — it’s a vital part of being human. Creating daily erotic rituals can reconnect you with your body, desires, and sense of aliveness, whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between.

Erotic rituals aren’t about rushing toward orgasm. They are about savoring pleasure, building intimacy (with yourself or others), and infusing ordinary moments with extraordinary presence.

Here are 5 erotic rituals you can weave into your everyday life.