Feedback isn’t a complaint, it’s an invitation to connect more deeply. Instead of thinking “I need to correct them,” think: “I want to let them in on what really turns me on.” This mental reframe will help you deliver your words with warmth and curiosity. More tips on how to make them a better lover – in this blog.

So you’re thinking about pressing record. Whether it’s a personal keepsake, a spicy gift, or just something to giggle about later, your first home video can be intimate, empowering, and seriously hot… if done right. Here are 5 things you’ll want to know before you hit “playback.”

Kissing is often seen as soft, sweet, and romantic. But in kink, a kiss can be so much more. It can tease, dominate, beg, claim, reward, or deny. Whether you’re exploring power dynamics, sensation play, or just want to make kissing an experience to remember, here are kinky ways to kiss your partner that go far beyond a basic peck.

Kinky love languages aren’t always obvious. Your partner may worship at your feet, while quietly aching for you to say “thank you.” They may kneel for hours, but what they need is five minutes of your full attention.

So don’t just play with their body. Learn to speak to their heart, too. Here’s how to recognize your partner’s kinky love language and how to speak it like a pro.

When people hear the word “submissive,” they often imagine someone quiet, obedient, maybe even voiceless. The image is usually one of passivity, someone who simply receives orders, sensations, or structure from a dominant partner. But that couldn’t be further from the truth.

In healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics, submission is not about being passive. It’s about choosing, communicating, and co-creating an experience with power running both ways,  just in different forms.

Here’s how submission can be a deeply empowered, intentional role, and how you can take control through surrender.