Gags have been a part of sex games for a long time, but while some people already gag their partners on a regular basis, others only dream of it — the inability to talk is arousing and allows you to focus on the pleasure. However, choosing the right gag for you or your partner is not easy. Below, we will tell you what rules you need to follow when using a gag.

What is a Gagball?

The classic gag ball is made of silicone, which has an average diameter of 4 to 5 centimeters. It is attached to a band, which is placed around the head. The ball part goes into the mouth and keeps it open and closed at the same time. Today, there are many variations of this classic toy.

There are a few important things to keep in mind when shopping for a ball gag. First, look for one that is hollow and has holes, so you don't have to worry about air access. Second, choose the right size. Open your mouth as if you were going to bite off a large hamburger, hold it for twenty seconds, then measure the distance between your teeth - this will be the maximum diameter of the ball you can buy. In fact, it's worth taking a ball that’s ½ inch smaller in diameter, otherwise, your jaws might instantly stiffen. Third, the material should be soft and resilient because you will have to sink your teeth into the ball. This will help you avoid damaging your teeth.

How does it work?

A gag is an item of personal use, like a toothbrush. This toy has a simple task: it closes the mouth of the person who wears it. Of course, today gags come in many different shapes besides the classic ball, such as rings or clamps. Your choice will depend on what fetishes you have and what you want. It is important that the toy is worn properly. It should sit comfortably and not hurt.

Attention: To ensure safety and make your play sessions as enjoyable as possible, you need to agree on a stop sign, that the gagged partner can use to stop play if it feels painful or very unpleasant. This way the other partner can react as quickly as possible and remove the ball gag.

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Who should use ball gags?

Gag balls are mostly used in the fetish scene, but that is certainly not their only use. This means that even if you don't like SM, bondage, and other kinky practices, you can still enjoy the sex toy. The best thing you can do is to just give it a try. Fortunately, your first ball gag does not have to be particularly expensive, you can try a more affordable version at first and if you really enjoy using it, upgrade to a premium-quality accessory such as one of Anoeses leather ball gags.

Are ball gags suitable for men and women?

Oftentimes, ball gags are advertised by female models, but that does not mean that only women can enjoy them. For men, these accessories can bring just as much fun. This is true not only for homosexual couples but also for heterosexual men who can find immense pleasure from being using the toy. 

When purchasing a ball gag for a man, you need to pay attention to the size. Since men’s mouths are usually bigger than females, you need to choose a larger ball size. This will prevent the ball from constantly slipping out of the sub’s mouth during sex. So a 4.0 or 4.5-centimeter sphere might be too small, depending on your own preferences. 

Using a ball gag

After buying a ball gag, you should wash it thoroughly. This removes dust and other dirt from the toy. You should only use the toy after it has been cleaned. It is important not to secure the gag too tightly around the head. There are two reasons for this. On the one hand, there can be a lot of pressure from the straps, which is very uncomfortable in the long run. On the other hand, this will cause the ball to be pressed into the mouth hard, which, in turn, causes lockjaw more quickly.

However, the gag shouldn’t sit too loosely either, otherwise, the sub can easily push it out with their tongue. And this will stop all the fun. Additionally, it is important to choose a high-quality ball. If the silicone is too soft, tooth marks will quickly appear on it. If, on the other hand, it is too hard, biting into it will feel very unpleasant. You should wash the sex toy after each use, as it will collect a lot of saliva, which you can simply wash away with a little soap and water.

Best materials for ball gags

Ball gags can be made from many different types of materials, but which material is best? Basically, there is no one best material, as it all depends on your personal needs and desires. Silicone is at the top of the list. This material is gentle to the skin and it also does not overload the jaw. But there are plenty of other materials besides silicone. For instance, hard rubber is perfect if you want to bite the ball really hard. Latex balls are rather rare but they do exist.

The collar of a ball gag can also be made from different materials, for example, leatherette, leather, fabric, or latex. The material plays a huge role not only in the gag’s comfort but also in its appearance. It is best to pick which material you like first and then see which ball gags are available.

Where to buy a ball gag?

The easiest solution is to buy your ball gag on the internet. There are several advantages to this option. First and foremost, there is a wide selection of gags, so both hardcore bondage lovers and beginners will get their money's worth. It doesn't matter if you want a black ball gag or even a complete gag mask, you will likely find a suitable option online. 

Plus, buying a gag online is much more discreet than going to a sex shop because no one can know what you’ve bought. Plus, BDSM apparel and sex toys are usually shipped in standard packaging that hides the fact that the package is coming from a sex shop. In addition, you can generally get a much better price online than in an adult store. 

Final words

Remember, you should never use gags if you or your partner have cardiovascular or pulmonary disease, asthma, epilepsy, or claustrophobia. The same is true for people with any kind of acute respiratory infections and history of jaw dislocation. 

If you don’t have any of these conditions, feel free to buy a ball gag but remember that everything you put into yourself must be made of quality materials.

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