April 05, 2025

Prostate Pleasure 101

When it comes to exploring pleasure, there’s one spot that often gets overlooked—but has the power to completely transform how men experience orgasm. We’re talking about the prostate, also known as the male G-spot. If you’re curious, nervous, or excited to try prostate play for the first time, you’re not alone. This guide is your gentle introduction to the basics—no shame, no pressure, just honest info.

What Is Prostate?

Prostate is a walnut-sized gland located below the bladder and in front of the rectum. In addition to producing fluid that nourishes and protects sperm, the prostate can also bring sexual pleasure.

Why Does Stimulating Prostate Bring Pleasure?

Prostate play feels so good because the prostate is rich in nerve endings and deeply connected to the body’s orgasmic system. Stimulating it can trigger powerful, full-body sensations — especially when combined with external touch.

How Do I Reach The Prostate?

You can reach the prostate internally with penetration or externally through the stimulation of the perineum (the tiny patch of sensitive skin between your genitals and anus).

Tips For Prostate Play

Before even getting started, cut and file your nails. Then, wash your genitals and hands thoroughly.
Prepare the anal lube, contraceptives, and toys. You might also want to get an anal serum/spray that will relax your anus.
Get in a comfortable position and start with a foreplay. You'll get more pleasure out of the prostate stimulation if you're aroused and relaxed.
Start small and slow. The tongue or lubricated fingers are great for the beginning.

Ideas For Stimulation

Finger Play. Use a lubed finger and a slow “come here” motion to massage the prostate.

Prostate Toys. Try a curved massager or vibrating plug for hands-free pleasure.

Perineum Touch. Press or vibe the area between the anus and scrotum for indirect stimulation.

Double Stimulation. Combine prostate play with stroking the penis for intense orgasms.

Partnered Fun. Explore finger play, toys, or pegging with lots of lube and communication.