How we love, trust, and connect is often shaped by our attachment style, and in BDSM relationships, especially Dom/sub (D/s) dynamics, this emotional wiring plays a powerful role. Whether you’re a Dominant, submissive, or Switch, understanding your attachment style can help you navigate intimacy, power, boundaries, and trust with more awareness and intention.
In this guide, we explore how the four primary attachment styles show up in Dom/sub dynamics, and how to build safer, more fulfilling kink relationships through emotional insight.
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The world of ethical non-monogamy is diverse and deeply personal. And one of the most intriguing dynamics within it is the Stag and Vixen relationship. Often misunderstood or mislabeled as a variation of cuckolding, the Stag and Vixen lifestyle stands on its own, grounded in mutual desire, trust, and the thrill of voyeurism in relationships.
So, what is the Stag and Vixen dynamic, and how does it actually work in practice? Let’s explore this increasingly popular form of consensual non-monogamy.
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Safe words are the emergency brakes of kink and BDSM. They allow us to explore intense play, emotional vulnerability, and power exchange safely. But what happens after one of you actually uses a safe word?
Many guides talk about what safe words are and when to use them. Fewer talk about the aftercare, communication, and reflection that follow. So let’s break it down.
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Strap-on sex isn’t just for one kind of body or one kind of relationship. It’s a powerful, playful, and deeply satisfying way to explore pleasure, connection, and power dynamics. Whether you’re completely new or looking to refine your skills, strap-on play has something to offer everyone.
Here are some inclusive, sex-positive tips to help you enjoy the ride (literally).
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We often associate Dominants with strength, control, and unshakable confidence. But even the most self-assured Dom(me)s are human – and that means they, too, can become emotionally overwhelmed.
For submissives, this can be confusing or even destabilizing. After all, the person you rely on to guide and hold space for you is suddenly in need of care themselves. To help you navigate those vulnerable moments, we created this thoughtful, sub-centred guide.
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In the world of BDSM, the term “domspace” refers to a mental and emotional state experienced by the dominant partner in a power-exchange relationship. It’s a space where they feel in control, confident, and deeply connected to their role as a dominant. But what does this mean in practice, and why is it an important part of BDSM dynamics? Let’s break it down.
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