4 Types of BDSM play scenes

Every person's interpretation of kinky scenes is different. Someone interprets them as sexual intimacy that bonds the couple, while another sees them as a way to express one's personality. Still, BDSM scenes can simply be an opportunity for a couple to explore something new together. One thing we are certain of is that people need to carefully prepare for kinky scenes to match each other's expectations and make each session unforgettable.

As the saying goes, a man is known by the kinky scenes he likes. So, in this article, we'll go over four different types of BDSM play that you might enjoy.

Mind Fucks

“Sitting on the floor, I was terrified to turn my head. I could hear the noise of metal cuffs from afar. In a few moments, I sensed him standing right in front of me. Was he attempting to punish me? I was excited and terrified at the same time. And that was the most enjoyable aspect of it all.”

BDSM mind fuck is built using the submissive's imagination. Only the Dominant's words convince a submissive that something is going to happen. The submissive, for example, is free to neglect the task or be rude towards their dominant. They know they are breaking the rules and will be punished for that. Or not? Still, you need to be careful since the mind fucks are edge play that can be overwhelming for a partner. Mind fucks manipulate the player’s perception, so you should be careful when engaging in them. 

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Roleplay

Were you the kid in school who had a flair for the dramatic? Were you in all of the school shows and finding it easy to "change masks"? Then you will probably enjoy kinky roleplay in the bedroom. This is one of the most popular and spectacular BDSM practices. Perhaps in your fantasy world, you are the strict teacher who has always dreamed of restraining and punishing the disobedient student. Or maybe you’ve always dreamt of having a sexy nurse care for you and go a bit too far in trying to help you feel your best. Since our imagination knows no bounds, you should put your trust in it to add a bit of spice to your sex life!

Playtime

This is the right time to search for a key to your play room. Bring all the floggers, paddles, dildos, and vibrators, and choose which game you prefer to play today. Is it more gratifying to take control of your partner’s orgasm, or are you in the mood for bondage and discipline? The beauty of playtime scenes is that they can be wonderfully spontaneous. However, they can also be equally well-planned by the dominant alone or together with the sub. This BDSM scene can culminate with sex or not, depending on your decision. The one thing that can't be changed here is that playtime should satisfy the needs and desires of both players. 

Consensual Non-consent

This type of BDSM kinky scene gives rise to many pitfalls. There are many opposing viewpoints on this topic, and you must first determine what side of the debate you and your partner stand on. Can you give up your right to consent to your partner? It is all up to you. 

The best tip we can give is to only try this kinky scene with someone you trust and only when you want it. Negotiation is a great way to set the boundaries for this game. Think about your feelings and do not give a chance to things that can trigger you. This type of play is not a good time to hide your feelings and make compromises since it can lead to mental issues and damage. Choose a safe word or signal which will ensure the sub’s safety, and remember, no one has a right to make your decisions for you unless you permit them.

While there are some defined types of BDSM play scenes, there is no obligation to give names to all the moments when you allow your kinky fantasies to run wild. Have fun, feel free, and enjoy your playtime.