5 Tips To Make Your First Home Video

1. Lighting: Soft, Sexy, Forgiving

Your overhead light is not your friend. Trust us. Use soft, indirect lighting — like a warm lamp, candles, or even a dimmed ring light behind a scarf. Bonus points for red or golden tones (they’re flattering and erotic without screaming “studio porn”).

Insider tip: Lighting behind you = silhouette. Lighting behind the camera = glow. Choose your fantasy.

2. Angles Matter (But So Does Consent)

You’re not filming a Marvel movie, but a little attention to angles goes a long way. Experiment with a stable surface or tripod. Try slightly above eye level for a natural, flattering view — or go low for a more voyeuristic edge.

But here’s the real tip: Talk about it beforehand. Who’s keeping the video? Is it for one night or forever? Are you both comfortable being filmed in the first place?

Boundaries are hotter than NDAs — and a lot more respectful.

3. Wardrobe: Wear What Makes You Feel Good

You don’t have to start naked. Tease it. Layer it. Think: sheer lingerie, leather, boxers that hang just so. Pick something that makes you feel like the hottest version of yourself — even if that’s just sweatpants and a devilish grin.

Feeling nervous? Let your outfit be a persona. Slide into character, and let them take over.

4. Sound Is Half the Seduction

Moaning is great. So is dirty talk. But background noise? Not so much. Mute your notifications. Turn off your microwave. Ask your dog politely to leave the room.

And if you’re into sound play, amplify it. Whisper, groan, slap, sigh. A good soundscape is pure porn for the ears.

Hint: Saying exactly what you’re doing in the moment can feel unbelievably intimate (and incredibly hot on replay).

5. Don’t Perform. Play.

You’re not auditioning. You’re connecting. Laugh. Mess up. Whisper something ridiculous. Get lube on the camera. Lose balance mid-thrust. The point isn’t to be flawless — it’s to be real and turned on and deeply into each other.

If you’re having fun, it’ll be hot. Promise.

Final Frame

Making a sextape isn’t about capturing perfection. It’s about capturing pleasure, play, and presence. So set the mood, set the boundaries, and then let go.

And remember: The sexiest thing on camera? Two people who clearly want each other.