Being a submissive doesn’t mean giving up your voice. In fact, learning how to express your desires, needs, and limits clearly is one of the most empowering things you can do in kink. Communication makes the experience deeper, more connected, and more pleasurable for everyone involved.

Here are a few practical tips and phrases that can help you express yourself, even in the heat of the moment: 

We talk a lot about intimacy in physical terms, but some of the deepest, most lasting forms of connection happen far from the bedroom. They live in the way you speak to each other mid-argument, in the quiet acts of care no one else sees, in the everyday decisions to stay gentle even when things feel hard. 

Trust is the foundation of any deep erotic connection. And when it breaks, it can feel like the whole relationship is on shaky ground. Whether it was a boundary crossed, a moment of miscommunication, or a pattern of disconnection, rebuilding erotic trust isn’t just possible, it can become the beginning of a more honest and attuned relationship.

This isn’t about starting over. It’s about starting deeper.

Feedback isn’t a complaint, it’s an invitation to connect more deeply. Instead of thinking “I need to correct them,” think: “I want to let them in on what really turns me on.” This mental reframe will help you deliver your words with warmth and curiosity. More tips on how to make them a better lover – in this blog.

So you’re thinking about pressing record. Whether it’s a personal keepsake, a spicy gift, or just something to giggle about later, your first home video can be intimate, empowering, and seriously hot… if done right. Here are 5 things you’ll want to know before you hit “playback.”