Cuckolding vs Hotwifing

Cuckold — a man who watches how their partner has intercourse with someone else.
Cuckoldress — a woman who cuckolds her partner in the play.
Hotwife — a married woman who is allowed and/or encouraged by her husband to pursue sexual relationships with other partners.
Stag — a husband of a hotwife.
Bull — the third person who wants to engage in the cuckolding play.

In order to understand the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing, we should understand the variety of emotions that overwhelm our characters.

Cuckold
When she is with this guy - bull. I feel humiliated. It may sound paradoxical, but I get aroused when my cuckoldress sends me intimate pics of her being with other partners. When she shares the spicy details. She is so beautiful, powerful, and independent.

Cuckoldress
I know that you like some emotional torture. I feel powerful when I choose hard and soft limits and arrange the play. When I tell you about your weakness and compare you to a bull, I know that you burn inside. I bet you enjoy this sensation.

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Stag
When I look at you, I feel so proud that you're mine! I want you to be happy with your sexuality. Do flirt with other guys, even be intimate with some of them. Because I know that by the end of the day, you'll go home with me.

Hotwife
I love the way you encourage me to fulfill your fantasies and mine. When I catch the other's eyes on me, I know that you're not going to restrict me. That's why I feel free and curious about what can happen.

These two plays cover different emotional spectrums. Cuckolding is about being overwhelmed with the itchy feeling of humiliation, submissiveness, and obedience. And hotwifing requires partnership, encouragement, and pride. Nevertheless, one doesn't contradict another. They just exist as independent possibilities. People have different sexual fixations formed in early childhood and fantasies that can be brought to life if partners understand each other and are willing to play. The mutual thing is consent – an unavoidable part of any sexual activity.

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