We bet you have already tried a little bondage anyway. Even in super vanilla relationships, people experiment with blindfolds or ties. To this list, you can also add some spanking and hair-pulling. And if you enjoy it and want to try more, there are 5 reasons why you shouldn't postpone it.
Power exchange. Within each couple exists a dynamic of receiving and giving away the power. It can be sexual, financial, physical domination, etc. In bondage, you can exchange it sexually. And once you agree who is going to be submissive or dominant, the process begins. This experience can be transformative for both of you.
Meditative practice. Applying bondage, it can be shibari technique or restraining sets, you immerse into the whole spectrum of feelings. The touch of a rope or leather, the view on your partner's body, the smell of sex, all these put you in a trance. Your consciousness is flying around.
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Learning more about your partner. Probably, you know every little freckle on your partner's body. But bondage is a whole other experience for human sexuality. It's interesting to observe and remember new signs of body language. You can learn new and sometimes unexpected turn-ons and turn-offs.
The whole new world. When you open one door to bondage, you can open another to discipline practice. This one is related to the first one on the list. Discipline adds the taste of role-playing into sex. And role-playing leads to scenarios. Suddenly, you are in a magical labyrinth of desires and experimentations.
Aftercare. The super sweet and obligatory thing you should do after bondage. Basically, you can sit comfortably with a beloved person on a couch, drink some tea, and talk. In this atmosphere, you can express all feelings you had during the process. What you have liked, what not, do you want to try it once more?
Now, you may feel an inflamed need to buy a rope or a restraining set. If so, check our shop section and collections of sets. Go ahead, don't be shy!
Have you read all of our articles:
- SHIBARI BONDAGE: What it is and how to practice shibari?
- Some words about leather restraint set "AURA"
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